Relationships
- Our Best Mirrors
The world provides mirrors for us to view ourselves, but our personal relationships are the best reflectors. We choose our relationships based on what we are wanting to learn and grow towards.
There are a few key pieces to carry with us while "dancing" with others if we want to do it in a healthy responsible way. Paul Ferrini teaches the "Crash Course on Boundaries:
Everything that you think, feel, say and do belongs to you and everything that others think, feel, say and do belongs to them.
We also must know if we are relating from a feeling of fear or love. This can be tricky. Sometimes fear can be there disquised as love, but when we look deeper and more closely we see, alas, we are being driven by fear. Much of our world is fear-based, so this is of no surprise. Much of what we do is out of fear.
Journey To Self